Faith's Mom's Blog

Though Medcenter wasn't having any Black Friday specials, Faith and I both found out that it was the best day to have an appointment. Everyone in Bismarck was either gone, shopping or sleeping, so we got into our appointments right away and were in and out very quickly. For my appointment, I arrived at 9:30 to get my pacemaker battery replaced. A pacemaker check on November 11 via telephone showed that my battery was in ERI - the stage at which the battery begins to conserve energy because it's getting low.  Apparently, it had been at that stage as of October 23rd - which is the day before I started my new job and also the day before I once again had health insurance. When a pacemaker is at ERI, it usually has about three months of battery life but because my heart sucks the juice out of my battery at a faster rate than normal, they advised me to get it changed as soon as I could. It worked out that I could get in the day after Thanksgiving - a holiday for us at work. At fi...

Throughout the month of November, I have noticed many of my Facebook friends celebrating the month of Thanksgiving by updating their status each day saying what they are thankful for. I haven’t been doing this on Facebook, so here are my 30 days of thankfulness all in one day. During the month of November these are the things I have been particularly thankful for: 1. JESUS 2. My wonderful husband and our amazing daughter 3. Our accessible van 4. Wi-fi 5. Finally being a two-car family 6. Living in Bismarck and in North Dakota 7. Praying friends and family 8. JOY International women’s ministry 9. Health insurance 10. Heaters that emit warmth 11. Wonderful Christian music 12. Our amazing respite care ladies who look after Faith 13. Having a good job 14. Warm coffee drinks 15. Faith’s school and everyone who works with her there 16. Great haircuts from our stylist, Julie 17. Good books to read 18. Knowing a trustworthy mechanic who fixed the...

Rob and I have certainly had our share of transitions since getting married nine years ago. About seven months after having Faith, we closed our desk-top publishing business in Watford City and made the move to Bismarck. This was all totally unplanned but due to Faith's medical needs, we felt God was preparing the way for us to make such a huge transition. Since coming to Bismarck/Mandan in 2004, there have been more transitions including a few moves from apartment to apartment and having to get used to Faith's adaptive equipment, tube feedings, and the many therapy appointments that go along with having a child with special needs. It seems that just when we get into the groove of a new transition, another one comes our way. And more often than not, they are quite unexpected. This latest transition involved me going back to work after being home with Faith for three years while Rob took his turn once again to be a stay-at-home dad. At first, Rob and I were a little stunned ...

Faith recently went to see a surgeon regarding the placement of a baclofen pump . At our last appointment with her specialist who oversees all of her therapy we were shown x-rays that showed her left hip was about 40% out of its socket. For this reason, we set up a consult with a surgeon and were looking at getting the baclofen pump sooner rather than later. I was surprised to find out that the surgeon has some reservations about inserting the baclofen pump. The main reason for his reluctance is that Faith is still pretty small. They normally won't put the hockey-puck-sized pump in a child that is less than 45 pounds, which is pretty much what Faith weighs.  There is extra concern with Faith because there is even less room in and around her abdomen due to her mic-key button. When Rob mentioned maybe waiting a year until Faith grew more, the surgeon said that was probably wise. But still, there is her hip to think about. I really don't think her other doctor is going to be v...