Times of Transition

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To me, the cooler months of fall seem more like a season of newness than do the cold winter months of January. Maybe it's because that's when school, Bible studies, and small groups all start up again and we transition from lax summer schedules to busier days filled with a flurry of activities. (I also realize that part of the busyness is that we have so much to get in before the snow flies).

Another reason fall is a great time to get a fresh start is because according to God's calendar, the New Year actually takes place in either September or October during the Jewish holiday of Rosh Hashanah. Whether it's on purpose or not, it seems as though our family always experiences major transitions in the fall, and this year is no exception.

Spending a perfect fall day at the park
Burning documents - it's much faster than shredding plus this way we get S'mores!
Hanging out in our crowded apartment/office

We kicked off September by moving our office into our apartment. (And yes, it is a little crowded in here). We did this for a few different reasons, all which seemed like good ones at the time. Now, however, my husband is really missing having an office. He's discovered he is not a work-from-home kind of guy. 

While I can work from home, I have discovered that not having an office is a really good excuse to go to a coffee shop. The library works well too, which by the way, has a coffee shop inside, so it is a win-win.

Another transition we have made is that Rob has decided to join my brother's tree crew. This means when he is out all day doing tree work, I am the sole caretaker for Faith, not to mention her homeschooling teacher. Thankfully, we get respite care three or four afternoons a week which is when I try to get my work done and run errands. (Or get some rest if we've had a particularly rough night).

Faith's first day of school at home (she seems happy about it!)

Last week, Faith and I began a new adventure called Inspired Collective where we meet with other homeschooling families once a week at a local church. Together, we learn Spanish, science, history, and practice for an upcoming Christmas program.

This group is a huge blessing as homeschooling an only child can get a little lonely for both of us. While she gets to interact with other kids, I get to socialize with other moms. One of the best parts is that all the parents are there with their kids and I get to wheel Faith from room to room and help her with writing, eating, etc. As Rob says, "Faith has the best aide ever this year!"

Our impromptu field trip to Papa's Pumpkin Patch
She certainly is getting taller!
Fall fun with Grandma and Grandpa
Just being silly!

Because of so much going on, I made the tough decision to step down from serving as JOY International's Java JOY coordinator. I still enjoy getting together every month with my fellow JOY bloggers all of whom have been such a blessing to me. These ladies are true prayer warriors and are always ready to offer advice, friendship, and the love of Christ. 

As you can tell from the pictures, Faith is blossoming into a beautiful young lady. She is definitely a preteen and has the emotions to prove it! We've certainly had some challenges with some of these changes but God gives us the grace and the strength to get through them.

Through it all, I am thankful to God for new opportunities and family and friends who have encouraged me along the way. I look forward to all that He has in store during this New Season!

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  1. bedaacrs@yahoo.comOctober 8, 2015 at 9:25 PM

    It is great watching that radiant face grow up. I just do not get to Bismarck as much as i once did as I am just busier now at home. I am sole provider of daycare for my 4 month old grand daughter so I do not get away four days a week. This was a transition for me as well but I embraced it as being a way to serve the Lord and make a difference for Him in my little grand child. I have not gotten your book as yet but fully intend to read it. I raised two special needs kids as well however their needs were not quite as challenging as yours are with Faith. I still had seasons of guilt and anxiety dealing with a rare leukemia and alot of other issues each one had. They are all grown up now and I do know that it was God's grace that brought our family through some real challenges. I hope I do meet up with you sometime when I do get that way. Our lives have certainly changed as well the last two years but change is not always bad. God bless you in your new adventures with Faith always relying on His faith!
    Love,
    Betty Marschner

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